Opinion - Why Foreplay Is So Important In The Bedroom
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Something many people fail to realize is how integral the role of foreplay is in sex. Why do people think this is an option?
It is a must, you can’t just get right down to it. I mean would you go down a water slide if it weren’t wet?
To have good chemistry, and eventually to have sex with someone, everything needs to be in sync.
The reason so many people are bad in bed is because they fail to engage in anything before the actual penetration occurs.
How do you know the way the other person’s body is going to react to you if you don’t fool around beforehand?
“Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?”
By engaging in foreplay, you create an intense desire for the other person. As this increases, so will your attraction and need.
It creates a great environment before sex where you are just enjoying the experience of touching each other’s bodies. This sets the energy for what is about to happen next.
The reason the act of sex intimidates people is because they do not engage in foreplay. When you do this, you create a comfortable atmosphere where your inhibitions melt away. Start slow so you can actually begin to enjoy each other.
You may think this is an obvious concept, but men often get too excited and want to get right down to business.
Maybe this works for men, but for us ladies, you need to at least 10 minutes of vigorous foreplay. If you escalate too fast, too soon, sure you may finish, but you just leave your girl wanting more.
“I don’t know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.”
People imagine sex the way they see it in porn and forget about foreplay.
Perhaps this is more important for the female rather than the male, but regardless, the sex will only benefit if you start f*cking around before then. This is what gets us aroused.
When you have sex without foreplay, you are solely relying on the intercourse to bring you to orgasm. Many people do achieve this, however typically you just wasted half the time just trying to get aroused.
When you start having sex after engaging in this type of behavior, you are already excited. Build as much anticipation as you can. Remember sex is a marathon, not a sprint. This will make the sex itself that much more satisfying and rewarding.
It is no secret that women take longer than men to reach arousal. Look at what sex expert Dr. Ruth had to say about it, “It’s particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time than a man to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.”
“The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.”
Sex is a talent you will never improve upon until you master your skills. Just getting right to the act is never going to help you because you are missing out on all the intimacy foreplay allows for. Keep in mind foreplay also prolongs the enjoyment; delayed gratification is a beautiful thing.
Every person is different and by hooking up before the sex, you can start to realize what turns this other person on. This is your chance to test their limits and see how far they are willing to go. Figure out what this other person likes and doesn’t like, so you better know how to please them when the actual sex begins.
Foreplay is a critical aspect of sex that needs to be mandatory. It serves both physical and emotional purposes. It helps to stimulate both people and without it, you run the risk of your women failing to reach climax. Great foreplay will lead to a better sexual experience. It is beyond important for each person’s enjoyment and pleasure. Foreplay is the key to success.
To have good chemistry, and eventually to have sex with someone, everything needs to be in sync.
The reason so many people are bad in bed is because they fail to engage in anything before the actual penetration occurs.
How do you know the way the other person’s body is going to react to you if you don’t fool around beforehand?
“Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?”
By engaging in foreplay, you create an intense desire for the other person. As this increases, so will your attraction and need.
It creates a great environment before sex where you are just enjoying the experience of touching each other’s bodies. This sets the energy for what is about to happen next.
The reason the act of sex intimidates people is because they do not engage in foreplay. When you do this, you create a comfortable atmosphere where your inhibitions melt away. Start slow so you can actually begin to enjoy each other.
You may think this is an obvious concept, but men often get too excited and want to get right down to business.
Maybe this works for men, but for us ladies, you need to at least 10 minutes of vigorous foreplay. If you escalate too fast, too soon, sure you may finish, but you just leave your girl wanting more.
“I don’t know the question, but sex is definitely the answer.”
People imagine sex the way they see it in porn and forget about foreplay.
Perhaps this is more important for the female rather than the male, but regardless, the sex will only benefit if you start f*cking around before then. This is what gets us aroused.
When you have sex without foreplay, you are solely relying on the intercourse to bring you to orgasm. Many people do achieve this, however typically you just wasted half the time just trying to get aroused.
When you start having sex after engaging in this type of behavior, you are already excited. Build as much anticipation as you can. Remember sex is a marathon, not a sprint. This will make the sex itself that much more satisfying and rewarding.
It is no secret that women take longer than men to reach arousal. Look at what sex expert Dr. Ruth had to say about it, “It’s particularly important for women to have successful foreplay because it takes a woman a longer time than a man to get up to the level of arousal needed to orgasm.”
“The difference between sex and love is that sex relieves tension and love causes it.”
Sex is a talent you will never improve upon until you master your skills. Just getting right to the act is never going to help you because you are missing out on all the intimacy foreplay allows for. Keep in mind foreplay also prolongs the enjoyment; delayed gratification is a beautiful thing.
Every person is different and by hooking up before the sex, you can start to realize what turns this other person on. This is your chance to test their limits and see how far they are willing to go. Figure out what this other person likes and doesn’t like, so you better know how to please them when the actual sex begins.
Foreplay is a critical aspect of sex that needs to be mandatory. It serves both physical and emotional purposes. It helps to stimulate both people and without it, you run the risk of your women failing to reach climax. Great foreplay will lead to a better sexual experience. It is beyond important for each person’s enjoyment and pleasure. Foreplay is the key to success.
